We will say this again and again, although it is a hard one to "gronk" since the tendency of most of humanity is to look for power outside themselves. Love is your power and it comes from inside of you. No where else. If you want somebody to love you then you must find the love from inside yourself. The love you feel is the energy of the perfect being you already are, will be, and have been all along. Since this being, essence, is always within you then within you is as the worth, validity and love you will ever need.
To recognize this truth is a challenge for the very reason we have stated.
If you continue to see love as external then you will never find it. It
is not something given to you; it is something you already are. It is not
something that can be taken away from you; it is in you always.
You may say - oh this is all very well, but what does this do for my pain,
misery lonliness, and suffering. Again, you are not the sickness that you
have let surround you. For what ever reason you have allowed the conditions
in your life to perpetuate. You have groomed them and noursished them and
they are like little children that your are caring for. Suffering cannot
exist without your permission. But don't blame yourself, simply begin to
recognize this. All products of chief feature have a life of their own and
they require the energy that you give them. They need you to exist, so they
will stubbornly hold on to your attention. But rember, the cancer you may
have now is not you. Because of the parastic nature of the cancer it may
destroy your body but that is not you. You are much greater than that.