Be yourself. You may attach all sorts of faults to being yourself, but we ask you to let go of them, they are not you. You may be the driver of your life, but essence has set up all the roads you are following. Every turn you make is the correct turn - they are all the roads of essence.
There is one turn we would like you to avoid and that is the U turn. When you catch yourself regretting who you are now realize that you are making a U turn. So keep on going. Remember you have put much energy into who you are now. You have contributed your entire lifetime to your present moment.
Congratulate yourself. You are on a long, difficult journey and you have come a long way already. You are serving essence; you are serving entity.
The key to this is understanding that essence does make value judgments. Essence cannot judge you. Essence is like a parent who loves you no matter how low on the totem pole you think you are. By not judging yourself and allowing yourself to be whatever you want to be, you allow more of essence energy into your life.